Ranbir Kapoor Talks About Deepika n Sonam In GQ Magazine Interview
Ranbir Kapoor, who features on the cover page of this month’s GQ magzin, has spoken about Deepika Padukone and Sonam Kapoor.
Here is an extract from accompanying interview… On being a womaniser: “Right now it is like I am being linked left, right
and centre. I open the paper and I am actually dreading it sometimes.He says you know? I am 28 years old, I work hard, I am
fairly successful at my job and I am also attracted to women.”
episode in Koffee With Karan, it got really awkward. Deepika must be having some angst against me, which she probably took
out through this interview. But I still respect her, I still feel she’s a really nice girl.”
On Sonam: “I really have nothing to say about because she was just my co-star and I think she said a few things which she
really did not need to.” On relationships: “I don’t believe in casual relationships. I do not believe in one-night stands.
But I am not really looking to date someone.”
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‘Naughty’ Shahid visits Delhi
When Shahid Kapoor came to Delhi to visit his alma mater and his former residence a few days ago, little did he anticipate such a rush of memories and people. “Such is life,” Shahid said, “It’s humbling. Once, I was one of the thousand students doing morning prayers in this school. But God’s been so kind. Now, I need special permission or security to get me here.”
At Gyan Bharti Public School in Saket, the actor interacted with students, his teachers and the principal. Shahid, who had moved to Mumbai when he was 10, upon reaching his school, said, “Schooling in Delhi was fun. It was tougher in Mumbai, where I was a bit of an outsider.” By the time we accompanied him to his former house in Press Enclave, the crowd had grown significantly. As soon as Shasha (as he’s called) reached the house he grew up in, neighbours gathered around, each wanting to remind him of the moments they’d shared. One of them told us, “He was so naughty. Once, he put firecrackers in the postbox and blew it up!”
Shahid’s neighbours, Rohini and Gaurav, also told us similar tales, “We’d play together in the evening and would often end up fighting.” Their mother said, “Arrey… bade shararti the sab. They’d pull each other’s hair too.”
We also met Mamu, Shahid’s Man Friday. “Mamu is the one who was with me in Delhi, and is now with me in Mumbai,” said Shahid. Mamu has known Shahid since he was a child, and even pointed out the shed in which he used to live outside Shahid’s B-16 apartment. “Maine Shahid ke saath inhi parks mein cricket khela hai,” Mamu said, pointing to the lawns outside the house.
The Kapoor at number B-16
On Wednesay, Shahid Kapoor came back to visit the house and school where he spent his formative years. He then revisited the memories with DT that make these places special…
What do your years in Delhi mean to you?
This visit was very nostalgic. Delhi’s home. I love the weather here, whether it is summer or winter. Going back to my school, my home was very special. I really enjoyed my schooling in Delhi. In Mumbai, it was a bit tougher for me, because I was a bit of an outsider.
Is there a kick in coming back as a celebrity alumnus?
On the contrary, it is very humbling and brings you back to reality. I was one of the thousand students saying their morning prayers here. But God has been so kind. I am now at a point from where you need special permission or security to get me here.
Somewhere I feel it is too much. I am happy and fortunate to have it. But, it makes me feel good because some of the children there will have dreams and will think if he can do it, I can do it.
Did you ever get in trouble as a child?
Once I ran away from school with my friend. Actually, one of my best friends, Sidharth Lakhanpal, asked me to come to his place. His elder sister told the guard yeh mere saath hain… inhe jaane do. But, I forgot to tell my mom. She panicked. I remember, I was sitting in Sidharth’s house playing Lego and my mum reached there. With cops. She had looked everywhere for me. I got whacked that day. She was livid.
You lived with your maternal grandparents during this time in Delhi?
Yes. My maternal grandfather walked me to school every day. That was a special memory. His name was Anwar Azeem. I was in love with him; we had the closest bond ever. I used to hold his hand and walk, and he would keep talking to me about life and would give me that bit of gyaan I needed every day. A lot of what I am is because of what he taught me.
What are you like?
More mature, perhaps more responsible. I started earning very early on in life, in fact, when I was perhaps 16-years-old. And I used that money to sustain myself, and not on girlfriends. I would occasionally pitch in with the household expenditure and say, ‘Mum, I’ll pay the electricity bill this month.’ She would swell with pride.
From a loving partner in Vivah to a petty criminal in Kaminey and a teacher in Paathshaala, your roles have been diverse. Do you look for similarities between yourself and the characters you play?
As an actor, it’s very difficult to find a role that you can identify with. I identify with the process and all the roles that I have done have a certain part of me. Possibly, there is a Prem (Vivah), a kamina (Kaminey) and a Aditya Kashyap (Jab We Met) in me. I try to bring out facets that are deep down as part of my personality, in my roles.
Charlie from Kaminey, undoubtedly.
Lately, you seem to have let go of certain boundaries around yourself and are now addressing people and questions…
I have heard that a lot. I take time to open up ya. How I am with my friends is something very few know. Now, I am quite chilled out with the media too. Earlier, post my break-up, too much was being written about me and I felt the need to hold on to whatever little I had. But, I have an equation with people now, and I am willing to open up more. But then, there will be a certain part I want to hold on to.
People are always curious about you, especially your private life
They always want to know that! It’s mixed emotion; somewhere it feels a little nice that people are so curious about you. They want to know about you. But like I said, there are some things that are private, that you want to hold on to. When I find someone I want to spend my life with, I’ll come out and talk about it. I will make a public announcement. But, let me reach there, and there’s time for that.
What makes you so popular with girls?
You know, there’s a rule with women and I cannot understand why it is like that. The more you run away from them, the more they are interested in you. The more interest you show in them, the more they throw tantrums and behave like oh-we-are-not-interested-in-you. It’s really unbelievable. It’s amazing why. It’s a weird irony that exists in every woman. I can’t figure out why.
Did you learn this by experience or are these someone’s wise words?
I’ve learnt it the hard way yaar. I gave so much importance to my girlfriends and I got ignored completely. And now that I don’t give any importance, I get much more importance.
You started in Bollywood as a background dancer in movies like Dil Toh Paagal Hai and Taal?
Yes. It’s been a long journey. At that time, I was completely enjoying myself, not really thinking about life.
But you knew you had to be an actor…
What happens is… it is a very far off dream that you don’t believe will actually come true. You actually think yeh mujhe karna hai, but somewhere at the back of your head you are like, but how. These things don’t happen. But for me, it happened. I am living my dream.
It came true, but always, in the midst of controversies. It was reported that you trouble your directors and recently also refused your mother’s film
I now don’t give importance to things that don’t deserve it. Because people are gonna talk and you can’t do anything about it. People who matter know what’s happening and that’s important. I focus on people who matter. I am answerable to them and not to everybody.
How has Bollywood treated you?
Bollywood is home for me now. It’s wrong to say that it’s family for me, from a personal level. But it’s my family, professionally. Also, I’ve learnt that it’s all about consistency and keeping your head in the right place and focusing on your work. Because, eventually, all the frills that come with it are only because of the work you do. That’s what you need to focus on. Everything else is a distraction.
Does not being able to live a normal life bother you?
Yes. The first time I had to go to an awards ceremony, I went to Lokhandwala in Mumbai to buy clothes. At that time I had just started off. Not everybody knew me.
Now, it’s difficult and sometimes you do wish that you just go out there and go to a place and maybe talk a walk. I want to feel normal at times, because it is important to.
Any ‘normal’, short-term desires at the moment?
I’ve been wanting to get a bigger place for myself. The other short term desire is to have food. Dilli ka khana bahut amazing hota hai.
Shahid’s padosans
As soon as Shahid reached his locality, all the ladies from the neighbourhood surrounded him. One of his neighbours told us, “He was shy, but fun with his own group of friends. Bahut cricket khelta tha, Mamu ko le ja ke hamesha bowling karwata tha.” Mamu is Shahid’s Man Friday.
Even as a teenager, Shahid new that he wanted to be an actor. Here, we see him with his grandparents. He says, “Even as a gawky 15-year-old, I knew ki mujhe hero banna hai. I now look at the pic and think – yaar, did this guy never see a mirror?”
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Deepika Padukone as you enter the lobby of the Emirates NBD’s corporate headquarters in Deira, someone says: “It looks like a porcelain doll, so perfect and so delicate.” We can not help but agree. She is a perfect beauty, so a red scar on his right elbow stands. Deepika famous dimples flashing when we wonder what happened. “I was skating, which is what happened.” So much for being sensitive! This is what most Masala News learned of the stunning actress is now in Dubai for the world premiere of ‘Calling Karthik Karthik.
What attracted you to the role in ‘KCK’?
I loved the script. At the time I read it, I wanted to be part of it. It is a romantic thriller, which, like gender, is so unusual. The concept was something completely different, and not just for an Indian film.
You said recently that he had been nervous of cutting their hair short for ‘KCK’. What is the scariest thing you’ve done to prepare for a role?
Well, not so much fear as a challenge. My role in ‘Chandni Chowk to China “, where I had to learn and perform acrobatics, was very physically demanding, very exhausting.
Recently, during the filming of a movie, I had pigeon feed all over me. The scene required all chicks to be on me, and this was the only way to do it. And during another session, I had to hold a chicken.
See you in so many ads. Is there a product you never endorse, no matter how much money you want?
Never say never!
Do you think it has become a trend of co-star to be linked when casting a film? As has happened with you and Farhan this time. How do you feel about this?
There has been a trend in my case. I have worked with Shah Rukh, Akshay and Saif, and it did not. I have no idea what happened with Farhan. If people think we have good chemistry, is to do with our performance as actors. I think it should be left at that. The media must be responsible. Farhan particularly since it is a married man with children.
What is the best and worst of being alone?
No comments.
Who do you think is the hottest man only?
(Thinks a while) Rahul Gandhi’s. He is unique, right?
And who do you think is the hottest man married?
(Answer at once) Arjun Rampal
What do you like most about Dubai?
The malls! I have to hit the malls when he came here. No favorites but I like all who visit. And I love the food here. Always have a hommous and shawarma and pita bread.
If any other actress who had to play in a movie, who do you think would be the best option?
Nobody. I’m selfish! I do not want anyone to live my life.
In ‘Call Karthik Karthik’ Farhan you describe the character as being safe. In real life, what is your type – type of security or bad guy?
It is better not to have a type. Because if you do, then most often ends with someone who is not his type.
Deepka Says,I am selfish
What attracted you to the role in ‘KCK’?
I loved the script. At the time I read it, I wanted to be part of it. It is a romantic thriller, which, like gender, is so unusual. The concept was something completely different, and not just for an Indian film.
You said recently that he had been nervous of cutting their hair short for ‘KCK’. What is the scariest thing you’ve done to prepare for a role?
Well, not so much fear as a challenge. My role in ‘Chandni Chowk to China “, where I had to learn and perform acrobatics, was very physically demanding, very exhausting.
Recently, during the filming of a movie, I had pigeon feed all over me. The scene required all chicks to be on me, and this was the only way to do it. And during another session, I had to hold a chicken.
See you in so many ads. Is there a product you never endorse, no matter how much money you want?
Never say never!
There has been a trend in my case. I have worked with Shah Rukh, Akshay and Saif, and it did not. I have no idea what happened with Farhan. If people think we have good chemistry, is to do with our performance as actors. I think it should be left at that. The media must be responsible. Farhan particularly since it is a married man with children.
What is the best and worst of being alone?
No comments.
Who do you think is the hottest man only?
(Thinks a while) Rahul Gandhi’s. He is unique, right?
And who do you think is the hottest man married?
(Answer at once) Arjun Rampal
What do you like most about Dubai?
The malls! I have to hit the malls when he came here. No favorites but I like all who visit. And I love the food here. Always have a hommous and shawarma and pita bread.
If any other actress who had to play in a movie, who do you think would be the best option?
Nobody. I’m selfish! I do not want anyone to live my life.
In ‘Call Karthik Karthik’ Farhan you describe the character as being safe. In real life, what is your type – type of security or bad guy?
It is better not to have a type. Because if you do, then most often ends with someone who is not his type.
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“I’m surrounded by celebrities who are constantly discussing their personal lives. I’m the same Preity Zinta I used to be. You won’t find me discussing my private life in detail. I’m in a very good space right now,” Preity told IANS.
“The only problem is any man whom I’m seen with in public is automatically linked with me. I’ve come to a place where none of my male friends want to go out with me anymore! I think I’ll just have to pick my date for the next public event through a contest!” she added laughing.
Preity, who is co-owner of Indian Premier League (IPL) team Kings XI Punjab, has to cope with being linked to not only her co-stars but also cricketers now.
“Can you imagine, members of my own team! I’ve always maintained I’d never mix business and pleasure. Now that I’m getting fully into business, I’m narrowing my chances of finding a man. I know I’d never get into criminal activities, so maybe…”
Talking about her new equation with former boyfriend Ness Wadia, Preity said: “The media has been trying to find awkwardness in our equation. Why should that be? We’re still good friends. We’re no longer seeing each other. We’re colleagues now.
“If ever I’m in a situation, I’m sure he’d watch my back, as I’d watch his. But would people let go of this fascination with the equation between me and Ness? It’s been one year since we broke up.”
Preity has been spending a lot of time outside Mumbai and says she goes out of the city to avoid prying eyes.
“Whenever I’m not shooting I’m out of the country. Don’t get me wrong. I love Mumbai to death. But tell me what can an actor can do in the city if she isn’t working? I can’t go out partying. I can’t even take a jog. What do I do on a Sunday? I can’t even go out.
“Now (after the Ness episode) it’s become worse. I can’t go out with any guy. If I do I’ve to beg some women to come along, otherwise the guy and I get linked up. I can’t handle it anymore,” said Preity.
She describes her stint at the Harvard Business School as the best time of her life. “I took the plunge in December and went back to school, to Harvard School. Believe you me, it was the most enriching experience of my life. I didn’t do it because I wanted to go back to college. I wanted to learn about business management so I could be a better entrepreneur.”
“I had the best time of my life. I felt so proud to see so many young Asian students in Harvard. That was the future…I learnt negotiations and mergers, acquisitions, etc. There were students from all over the world, including, of course Asians. More than just the course, the questions that the students asked were so pertinent.”
Preity is ready to get back to films in a big way now. “But as far as my role in the IPL cricket team is concerned it’s all settled down now… My focus is now back to movies. I’m on the verge of signing new films.”
She says that 2010 will be a good year for her.
“Last year I was too busy experiencing life to talk about it. 2009 was a year of learning for me. Now I reap the dividends of what I learnt. I went back to college.
“I wasn’t travelling and nursing a broken heart. Just because I wasn’t giving explanations. The worst you can do to someone who’s recovering from an emotional setback is to crowd them. I should’ve been left alone. It’s like a death in your family.
“Those condolence calls just set your teeth on edge. My way of dealing with my breakup was to move on. The Harvard experience really rejuvenated me. I’ve come back a different person. You watch 2010 is going to be the best year of my life. As Mr. (Amitabh) Bachchan would say, it’s going to be mindboggling.”
Preity Zinta on life after breakup with Ness Wadia
‘Now… I can’t go out with any guy’
Actress-entrepreneur Preity Zinta is starting a new chapter in her life following her breakup with businessman Ness Wadia. The only thing that bothers her are link-ups with co-stars and friends, as a result of which none of her male friends, she says, want to go out with her.“I’m surrounded by celebrities who are constantly discussing their personal lives. I’m the same Preity Zinta I used to be. You won’t find me discussing my private life in detail. I’m in a very good space right now,” Preity told IANS.
“The only problem is any man whom I’m seen with in public is automatically linked with me. I’ve come to a place where none of my male friends want to go out with me anymore! I think I’ll just have to pick my date for the next public event through a contest!” she added laughing.
Preity, who is co-owner of Indian Premier League (IPL) team Kings XI Punjab, has to cope with being linked to not only her co-stars but also cricketers now.
“Can you imagine, members of my own team! I’ve always maintained I’d never mix business and pleasure. Now that I’m getting fully into business, I’m narrowing my chances of finding a man. I know I’d never get into criminal activities, so maybe…”
Talking about her new equation with former boyfriend Ness Wadia, Preity said: “The media has been trying to find awkwardness in our equation. Why should that be? We’re still good friends. We’re no longer seeing each other. We’re colleagues now.
“If ever I’m in a situation, I’m sure he’d watch my back, as I’d watch his. But would people let go of this fascination with the equation between me and Ness? It’s been one year since we broke up.”
Preity has been spending a lot of time outside Mumbai and says she goes out of the city to avoid prying eyes.
“Now (after the Ness episode) it’s become worse. I can’t go out with any guy. If I do I’ve to beg some women to come along, otherwise the guy and I get linked up. I can’t handle it anymore,” said Preity.
She describes her stint at the Harvard Business School as the best time of her life. “I took the plunge in December and went back to school, to Harvard School. Believe you me, it was the most enriching experience of my life. I didn’t do it because I wanted to go back to college. I wanted to learn about business management so I could be a better entrepreneur.”
“I had the best time of my life. I felt so proud to see so many young Asian students in Harvard. That was the future…I learnt negotiations and mergers, acquisitions, etc. There were students from all over the world, including, of course Asians. More than just the course, the questions that the students asked were so pertinent.”
Preity is ready to get back to films in a big way now. “But as far as my role in the IPL cricket team is concerned it’s all settled down now… My focus is now back to movies. I’m on the verge of signing new films.”
She says that 2010 will be a good year for her.
“Last year I was too busy experiencing life to talk about it. 2009 was a year of learning for me. Now I reap the dividends of what I learnt. I went back to college.
“I wasn’t travelling and nursing a broken heart. Just because I wasn’t giving explanations. The worst you can do to someone who’s recovering from an emotional setback is to crowd them. I should’ve been left alone. It’s like a death in your family.
“Those condolence calls just set your teeth on edge. My way of dealing with my breakup was to move on. The Harvard experience really rejuvenated me. I’ve come back a different person. You watch 2010 is going to be the best year of my life. As Mr. (Amitabh) Bachchan would say, it’s going to be mindboggling.”
